Stability. What it means, who defines it? You do. Like your religion (or non-), like your God, “stability” is a personal matter. Don’t let anyone else define it for you; be it your father, mother, brother, sister, or even friends. Don’t buy a house, if you don’t want to, just because your family expects you to, to satisfy themselves that you are stable. Don’t “settle down” in ways you wouldn’t want to, just so that your family will stop bothering you. Personal stability is not shown, it is not visible, not in a concrete house, not in a “good 9-5” job; you might be very stable, even if you have been “wandering” about, as some might put it, or, you might be very unstable, even though you have been in one place (“good 9-5” job, house, a society-defined-idea-of-a-family etc). Your stability is within you. If you are content, and satisfied within, deep-down, happy and confident about the decisions you have made, then don’t bother about what others might say to you, are saying to you. Be understanding of your family, or friend’s, show of concern and worry. Smile, hug them, and try and tell them that there’s nothing to worry about. But beyond that, know that there is nothing you can do. They will have to come to terms with it themselves. You can only do so much, do it, and then be at peace with it.

Reach for stability in the mind…not for show of stability outside…

Keep smiling!! πŸ™‚


My temple, my space…

For me a temple is a place where I can connect with the universe, “God”. It came very easily in Hyderabad. I think the place has a certain…vibration. It makes “connecting” easier. Or maybe it worked for me for whatever, however, way “I” am. I love how they show in the movie Avatar, that their “temple” is this ‘Tree of Souls’, a place where they sit, and connect with the “universe”. I love trees. Trees are my temples. πŸ™‚

Do you have personal favorite places where you feel one with everything? πŸ™‚

Be the God… :)

Be the God that you are looking for.

Instead of saying ‘God help me’, just go ahead and Help Yourself. (Not to someone else’s pie though…tut! tut!)

Instead of saying ‘God is wonderful’ say ‘I am wonderful’.

Instead of saying. ‘God can do anything’, say, ‘I can do everything’. Chart out a plan, and then do it. πŸ™‚

Perform small miracles. Smile a little. πŸ™‚ ..Yep, that’s a miracle. It shows the little little miracle warmth kindled deep within. πŸ™‚ Pay the auto/rikshaw guy that little bit extra. Somehow, I am pretty sure he, or she, needs it more than you do. Smile, and give. πŸ™‚

Instead of asking, ‘God, where are you?’, stand in front of a mirror, point at yourself, and say ‘Right here’. Smile. πŸ™‚

Satnam Siriwaheguru…may we all find the light within. πŸ™‚ …tube-light for some…ahahahahahahahahahahahahaha… πŸ˜€

Keep smiling… πŸ™‚